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Conversation Starters Worth Sitting With

Whether you're enjoying a quiet moment alone or sitting across from someone you care about, good conversations have to start somewhere.

So here's a little something from us—a few questions worth sitting with. No agenda, no strings. Just an invitation to go a little deeper.

-Your Friends at Insights Counseling Center

  • 1. What's one thing you've been avoiding thinking about?

    2. When's the last time you felt truly at peace? What were you doing?

    3. If you could change one pattern in your life right now, what would it be?

    4. What are you pretending is fine that actually isn't?

    5. What would you do differently if you weren't afraid of what people might think?

    6. What does your ideal ordinary Tuesday look like?

  • 1. What's something you've never told me that you wish I knew about you?

    2. What's been taking up the most mental space for you lately?

    3. When do you feel most like yourself?

    4. What's a belief you held strongly five years ago that you've since changed your mind about?

    5. How can I be a better friend to you?

    6. What's something you're proud of that you don't talk about enough?

  • 1. What's one small thing I do that makes you feel loved?

    2. Is there anything you've been hesitant to bring up with me?

    3. What's a dream you have that we haven't talked about in a while?

    4. When did you last feel really connected to me? What were we doing?

    5. What's one thing I could do this week to make your life easier?

    6. What do you think we do really well together?

  • 1. What's a favorite memory you have of us that I might not know about?

    2. What's something you learned the hard way that you hope I never have to?

    3. What were you like at my age?

    4. What's a family tradition you wish we had—or wish we'd bring back?

    5. What's the best advice anyone ever gave you?

    6. What do you think our family does really well?

If Any Of These Conversations Spark Something Deeper,
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