
Sex Addiction Recovery Resources - Books, Tools, and Support for Healing
Healing from Sex Addiction Takes Courage—
And You Don’t Have to Do It Alone
Who This Is For
This collection of resources is for anyone facing the reality of compulsive sexual behavior—whether that means a struggle with pornography, infidelity, fantasy, or other patterns that feel out of control.
What You’ll Find Here
Inside this resource library, you’ll discover trusted tools, reflections, and recovery guides to help you:
Begin breaking the shame and secrecy
Understand the roots of your behaviors
Take concrete steps toward accountability, healing, and relational repair
Looking for Therapy?
At Insights Counseling Center, we specialize in sex addiction recovery that integrates honesty, integrity, and emotional growth.
If you’re looking for clinical support, we invite you to visit our Sex Addiction Therapy page to learn how we walk with individuals, couples, and families through this deeply transformative work.
Articles to Start With
Not sure where to begin? These articles can help you take the first steps.
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Book Recommendations
Not every book will be the right fit—but the right one can offer clarity, language, and direction for the road ahead. Whether you’re working to understand your own behavior, rebuild trust, or support your partner’s healing, these titles have helped many find hope, tools, and perspective. Some are practical. Some are deeply personal. Begin with the one that resonates most with where you are.
Facing The Shadow
-Patrick Carnes, PhD
A foundational workbook for those beginning the journey of sex addiction recovery. This guide helps individuals explore the roots of their behavior, understand the impact of addiction, and take actionable steps toward long-term healing and accountability.
Shadows of the Cross – Craig Cashwell, Pennie Johnson, and Patrick Carnes
A Christian companion to Facing the Shadow, this workbook bridges sex addiction recovery with spiritual growth. It guides readers through the process of healing with an emphasis on grace, surrender, and identity in Christ—offering a faith-based path to wholeness and integrity.
Recovery Zone, Volume 1: Making Changes That Last – The Internal Tasks
– Patrick Carnes
Designed for those further along in sex addiction recovery, this workbook focuses on internal transformation and sustainable change. It helps individuals build emotional regulation, resilience, and a renewed sense of identity as they move beyond crisis into lasting growth.
Recovery Zone, Volume 2: Making Changes That Last – The External Tasks
– Patrick Carnes
The follow-up to Recovery Zone Volume 1, this workbook focuses on rebuilding life through external actions—like repairing relationships, rebuilding trust, and living out new values. Ideal for those ready to reintegrate into life with integrity, connection, and purpose.
Courageous Love: A Couple’s Guide to Conquering Betrayal
– Dr. Stefanie Carnes
Written for couples navigating the aftermath of sexual betrayal, this guide offers a structured path toward rebuilding trust, communication, and connection. With tools for both the betrayed and the betrayer, Courageous Love supports partners in doing the hard—but hopeful—work of relational recovery together.
Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction – Patrick J. Carnes
The book that first named and defined sexual addiction, Out of the Shadows remains a cornerstone for understanding compulsive sexual behavior. Dr. Carnes explores the roots, patterns, and impact of addiction—offering clarity, compassion, and a roadmap for recovery that has helped thousands take their first steps toward healing.
Silently Seduced: When Parents Make Their Children Partners
– Kenneth M. Adams
This groundbreaking book explores the hidden wounds of covert incest—when a parent turns to a child for emotional support typically reserved for adult relationships. Dr. Adams helps readers recognize the long-term impact this dynamic can have on intimacy, boundaries, and sexual development, offering a path toward healing and healthy connection.
The Betrayal Bond: Breaking Free of Exploitive Relationships
– Patrick J. Carnes
This book explores why we can feel most loyal to those who hurt us the most. Dr. Carnes offers insights into trauma bonding, power dynamics, and the cycle of exploitation—along with tools for breaking free and reclaiming your sense of self. A powerful resource for those in recovery from toxic or addictive relationship patterns.
A Light in the Dark
– Ken Adams
Written for partners who feel stuck in a relationship with someone still enmeshed with a parent or past trauma. Explores emotional immaturity, covert control, and what healing might require.
Boundaries
– Henry Cloud & John Townsend
A classic resource for learning when to say yes, how to say no, and how to protect yourself in relationships without guilt. Especially helpful when trust has been broken.
Looking for recovery support?
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