
Sex Therapy Resources – Support for Healing, Desire, and Connection
Healing Doesn’t Happen In Isolation—And You Don’t Have To Figure This Out Alone.
Who This Is For
This collection is for individuals and couples navigating sexual struggles, confusion, or pain. You might be facing desire discrepancies, sexual avoidance, sexual pain, erectile issues, past trauma, or challenges feeling emotionally and physically connected. Whether the concern feels new or has been unspoken for years, you are not alone.
What You’ll Find Here
Inside this resource library, you’ll discover tools to help you:
Make sense of your sexual story—past and present
Explore what safety, pleasure, and connection could look like for you
Learn about common sexual concerns and how they’re addressed in therapy
Reclaim language, agency, and healing at your own pace
Some resources offer education. Others invite reflection. Many provide words for things that may have felt too difficult to name. Start with the one that resonates most.
Looking for Therapy?
At Insights Counseling Center, we specialize in sex therapy that honors your values, your story, and your body’s wisdom. Our therapists are trained in working with religious sexual shame, painful intercourse, sexual trauma, low desire, erectile dysfunction, and more.
If you’re ready for compassionate, personalized support, visit our Sex Therapy page to learn more about how we help individuals and couples rebuild safety, connection, and intimacy.
Articles to Start With
Not sure where to begin? These articles can help you take the first steps.
Healing Intimacy After Trauma: How Sex Therapy Can Help You Reconnect
When One Partner Has Low Desire: How to Move From Stuck to Curious
Faith, Shame, and the Body: What Happens When Sexual Messages Turn Harmful? (coming soon)
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Recommended Reading:
Sex Therapy & Sexual Healing
These books aren’t one-size-fits-all—but when the fit is right, they offer guidance, clarity, and comfort. Some are full of practical tools. Others are written to help you feel less alone. Begin with the one that meets you where you are.
For Sexual Pain, Trauma, and Healing
When Sex Hurts
(Goldstein, Pukall & Goldstein)
A medical and relational guide for women experiencing sexual pain, written with deep empathy and scientific clarity.
Healing the Fragmented Selves of Trauma Survivors
(Janina Fisher)
Explores how trauma fragments identity and how somatic healing can support reintegration—including around sex and the body.
The Sexual Healing Journey
(Wendy Maltz)
A gentle, step-by-step guide for survivors of sexual abuse who want to reconnect with their bodies and reclaim healthy intimacy.
The Body Keeps the Score
(Bessel van der Kolk)
A trauma classic that explains how experiences live in the body and how healing can happen through body-based approaches.
For Couples Rebuilding Intimacy
Restoring the Pleasure
(Cliff & Joyce Penner)
A faith-based, clinically grounded book offering step-by-step programs for couples facing sexual avoidance, pain, or disconnection.
Erotic Intelligence
(Alexandra Katehakis)
A concise, practical guide to rebuilding healthy, connected sex after sex addiction. Ideal for individuals or couples in early recovery.
Coping with Erectile Dysfunction
(Metz & McCarthy)
Encouragement and evidence-based guidance for men struggling with ED—and for the partners walking alongside them.
Coping with Premature Ejaculation (Metz & McCarthy)
Practical tools and strategies to reduce anxiety and build mutual sexual satisfaction for couples impacted by PE.
A Celebration of Sex
(Douglas Rosenau)
A comprehensive Christian guide to sexual intimacy in marriage, offering clinical insight and faith-based support.
A Celebration of Sex After 50
(Rosenau, Childerston & Childerston)
A warm and reassuring look at how sexual connection changes—and can flourish—in midlife and beyond.
When Two Become One
(Chris & Rachel McCluskey)
A Christ-centered approach to emotional and sexual unity in marriage, with specific encouragement for spiritual intimacy.
ASecrets of Sex & Marriage
(Shaunti Feldhahn / Dr. Michael Sytsma)
A research-based, faith-informed book that busts common myths and reveals eight key surprises that help couples thrive sexually.
For Individuals Navigating Desire, Identity, and Healing
Come As You Are
(Emily Nagoski)
A compassionate, science-backed guide to female sexuality, offering permission, understanding, and tools to unlearn shame.
Single & Sexually Whole
(Douglas Rosenau)
Written for single Christians navigating sexual desire, integrity, and intimacy with God, self, and future relationships.
Looking For Support Around
Sex And Intimacy?
Learn more about how we help individuals and couples navigate sexual concerns, rebuild connection, and heal what’s been hurting—click here to explore our approach to sex therapy.